Everything worth having is worth fighting for. That is especially true in the dating game. So why do women continuously think that the best man will amazingly come, and love will suddenly take place? A woman needs to understand some important facts before she decides to date a guy. One incorrect action and she could possibly send him packing. I've listed the 3 most commons mis-steps that women make that you want to be sure to avoid if you want a lasting relationship with your fellow.
Error 1-- When you are not being your very own self
Never ever fail to remember where you stand in the relationship. You are number 1. Placing yourself second in the relationship is a mistake. Never ever sacrifice what you are, never give up the command you have. If this relationship merits working on, you want your significance, your gifts and your value acknowledged.
Mistake 2-- No matter how much you want to take care of him, he needs a girlfriend, not a mother
What's up with women, feeling like the best way to love their man is to take care of him? It's in our genetic makeup to be nurturing, we can't help it. But you'll only end up making your guy feel like a baby if you try to do too much for him. And in the end, he'll only resent you for your efforts. So let him take command. Let him drive, let him pick the restaurant, let him plan the date. No matter if you are a much better driver. Acknowledge that he'll get you to your destination. Never suggest his food for them when you eat out. He's a big boy and can order for himself. Don't worry if he doesn't make the healthiest choices. Don't ask your man if he should get a coat. He can make that decision on his own.
Get the picture? Love him like a lover, not a mother!
Mistake 3-- If you wish it, go for it
You can wait until the cows come home if you think the man of your dreams is going to suddenly show up at your door. Who has that kind of time to wait? In this world, if you want something you have to go after it. Even if the thought of it fills you with fear. However keep that to yourself. Nobody has to know that you are teeming with self- doubt. Mr. Wonderful is out there somewhere, all you have to do is get out there and find him. So go out and find him, and have a blast while you're looking. You've got to grab life by the horns, as they say. So go on and do it.
Attraction and relationships are complex human connections. Unfortunately, we get most of our training from movies, TV and magazines. Then we become disappointed when things do not end up as expected. Life is genuine. Just keep these guidelines in mind and you'll lessen the chances of missing the one guy worth finding.
Check out this article: How to Attract a Guy Here's another article you'll like: How to Work a Long Distance Relationsip
沒有留言:
張貼留言