Wait, we thought Adam Levine was against marriage?

Remember when Adam Levine said he didn't want to get married? Us, too.

OK, we were a little surprised — and admittedly, a little heartbroken — when Maroon 5 frontman Adam Levine announced his engagement to Victoria's Secret model Behati Prinsloo.

Weren't they just broken up a few weeks ago? Yes, but that's not the craziest part of this whole thing. The Voice hottie just told Nylon magazine that he never planned on getting married.

"I'm doing pretty well. If you don't get married, you can't get divorced," Levine told the magazine in April.

He added, "Why couldn't we learn from the devastatingly low percentage of successful marriages that our last generation went through?"

So, what gives? It seems like Levine might have suffered from a very real problem that many children of divorced parents experience: a fear of emotional intimacy.

"Adam's parents divorced when he was a young boy, and this has left scars on him —?a fear of emotional intimacy. He's afraid of falling in love, marrying and ending up getting painfully divorced like his parents," Carole Lieberman, M.D., psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets, told SheKnows of why Levine flip-flopped on his views of matrimony.

"He doesn't want to get too emotionally intimate with any woman because he's afraid their marriage will end in divorce."

Does that mean any woman can change a man from the non-marrying type to the walk-down-the-aisle type with a little love and prodding? Not necessarily: Some men just don't want marriage at all (exhibit A: George Clooney), while others have feelings from the past that they need to shake before they can make a commitment.

We're hoping that Levine and his Angel love go the distance — even if we do kind of hate her for taking one of Hollywood's most eligible bachelors.

Do you think Adam Levine is ready to get married? Sound off below!

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Why long-distance relationships aren't as bad as we thought

Dating study has surprising results

A new study published in the Journal of Communication finds that long-distance relationships can be better than in-person relationships.

Does absence make the heart grow fonder? Yes — at least according to the results of a new study by psychologists Crystal Jiang and Jeffrey T. Hancock.

According to the study, couples together over long distances have more meaningful interactions and higher intimacy levels than those together all of the time. The reason? Their face-to-face interactions are limited, so they have deeper conversations about love and the future when they do talk.

"Besides communication frequency, they also adapt their messages, for example, by focusing on more limited but relationally intense topics," Jiang told USA Today. "The intimacy developed here is a psychological closeness?— it doesn't include physical or sexual intimacy."

The study asked 63 couples in their early 20s to fill out a week's worth of daily online surveys about the quantity and quality of their interactions with their significant others. Researchers learned that most of the interactions were via text, video chats and phone calls.

"As a researcher, I'm not surprised with the results because it can be explained by the adaptive nature of human communication," Jiang told the newspaper. "But for the general public, I bet they are surprised. One of the reasons is that they strongly believe long distance relationships are challenging."

Well, they are challenging — especially when it comes to trust. However, this study shows that it's possible to have a successful relationship even with thousands of miles between you and your S.O.

Still worried about the physical side of your long-distance relationship? There's always Skype — and we've heard that it can be more exciting than regular skin-on-skin contact!

Have you had a successful long-distance relationship?

Share your tips below!

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