My partner is an above-average athlete. As my new?year's resolution this year, I decided to get fit and I joined a running group. I'm getting competitive and I?have asked him for advice. He always says he is too busy. However a friend of mine who works with him told me that he has not only made a marathon training plan for one of his colleagues, but is also giving her feedback on a weekly basis. He is senior to her so it cannot be for his career advancement. I am wondering if it signals something else going on between them or that he wants there to be something? We have been together for 12 years, living together for 10 years and I thought we had a good relationship. Now I am not so sure.
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