Trying to get your ex girlfriend back? You might still be doing the traditional begging and apologizing for things she blamed you for, that are not even true.
Such actions can bring yourself down, and it would make your ex think that she made the correct decision to dump you. Most guys would respond the exact way if the roles were reversed.
Here's what you must do instead:
Be calm.
Let's just say that you and your girlfriend have had a huge fight: you yelled at each other and she drove you away. When that all sinks in, you begin to worry and realize that your relationship is starting to fall apart.. As a result, you call her everyday and send text messages and emails, just like a stalker in those thriller movies.
This kind of actions turns women off. Women don't want to be stalked. The first thing that you need to do is to collect your thoughts before you contact her. don't bombard her with calls and text messages. Do it occasionally. If she doesn't reply, proceed to the next step.
The next step is to reach out to her friends. Try to speak to them. I know its hard, but they are the people you need to talk to. Explain your side of the story. Your goal is to get a little sympathy from them so that the next time she talks about you, they can put in a good word for you. It will also make her realize that you are serious about receiving her back.
Look attractive-always!
After a break up, men and women tend to just stop thinking about about themselves and let unhappiness take over, resulting in them not changing their clothes, untidy hair, poor hygiene and huge eye bags. This should not be the case. Regardless of how dreadful you're hurting inside, always try to make an effort to take care of yourself. Don't forget to eat right, get a good sleep and observe personal hygiene. This will make you look good and feel good. Thus, if your ex happens to see you, she might just realize that you're someone worth keeping!
Always be open.
When the tension has died down, try to talk to her. Make sure you know the right words to say. Explain to her what happened and let her know what you're thinking. Tell her that you're just stressed out because of work and family issues. Stay away from topics that can lead to further arguments.
One thing that you need to keep in mind when attempting to get your ex girlfriend back is to keep your self respect intact. Don't prolong any misunderstandings. Be proactive in fixing any issues that may arise so you can put an end to them. Always stay calm and be honest in telling her what you really feel. These simple steps can work to your advantage in reconciling with her and can also serve to make your relationship much stronger.
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